This is the last and final Grievance! If you missed parts 1-3, see below!
Grievance #4 – The Drive of My Teammate is Not There
Uncontrollables: Your teammates’ drive; Your teammates’ attitude; Your teammates’ competitiveness
Controllables: YOUR drive; YOUR attitude; YOUR competetiveness
Yes, it’s hard when you are surrounded by players who aren’t as driven as you, and with high school ball, you don’t really have a choice! You ask yourself, what are the things I currently can control? The answer is that it’s all about YOU. It’s not about anybody else. Now is the time you push YOURSELF harder and day in and day out try to maintain a consistent mindset. Every day at practice you show up to the field wanting to get better. Every game you show up to the field wanting to leave it all out on the field. Nobody else’s mindset should control this or change what YOU are about.
- Lead by example
- Don’t let others attitude affect you
- Push yourself more and maintain a consistent mindset
This game is what YOU make it, not what someone else makes it. Any given day YOU are in complete control of how you approach the game, how you approach your teammates and how you approach becoming the best player you can possibly be. High school softball is preparing you for the next level of softball for you in college or the next level of your life in getting a job. You must always be able to control what YOU can control, no matter what.
In the end, remember, you are playing someone else when you look at the scoreboard, but this game is really about YOU competing against YOURSELF. You should be pushing yourself in different ways and getting uncomfortable in different situations so that you continue to grow, and you are prepared for anything that is thrown at you when you make it to the next level.
Always control what you can. Look at every situation, and give an honest answer of what you can and cannot control about it.
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Amanda, thank you for your posts that are filled with so much insight. I know your passion is softball but so much of your advice is appropriate for any athlete. My high school grand children are in football, volleyball, basketball, baseball, track, and gymnastics. They are dedicated and leaders and I love sharing your knowledge with them. I am probably the most unathletic person you could meet but with your posts I can share your wisdom with them. Every day I send them a message of guidence or encouragement and I often use things from your posts. Thank you for trying to help create outstanding athletes. Your time and effort is appreciated more than you will ever realize. THANK YOU!
LaNetta! Thank you for taking the time to post – this is SO COOL to hear! I absolutely agree that the advice is appropriate for any sport athlete and also applicable for life! Thank you for showing and sharing some things with them! What a great grandmother you are to send them encouragement, I hope I continue to give you more things to be able to share with them. Thank YOU!